The Biggest Fear of Human Being

  

Fear has many types. Like some fear due to exams, some fear due to results, some fear due to darkness, some fear due to career, some fear due to money and some fear due to teachers or boss. We can also classify the fear like this…

Acrophobia - The fear of heights

Cynophobia - The fear of dogs

Aerophobia - The fear of flying 

Thanatophobia - The fear of death

Atchiphobia - The fear of failure

There are many more which we can classify. It is only for giving you a rough idea. But have you ever thought about biggest fear for human kind now a days? And how to conquer it?

Let us try to find the biggest fear of this generation as in every generation the fear change itself from this to that.

1. Is it money?

Up to an extent we can say money till we start earning it. After we start a business or a job and earning money by it this fear or phobia does not value much in our lives so this is not biggest phobia.

2.  Career?

Yeah we can say career because now a days not everybody have a secure future ahead of life. 98% of people do private work in India and those all are not secure. If they do not work properly their boss can fire them. Now even in government jobs due to its policies this is also not secured so this is one of the big fear but this is not the biggest because in life somehow we learn to fill our stomach by doing some good and moral work.

3.Death?

No absolutely not because most of the people think they are immortal. Yeah..!!! Shocked?? But this is true as there are number of wrong things are happening in this world as weapons are being produced & purchased more and more, terrorist attacks are increasing day by day and people who do this do not fear by this. If they fear they never ever do things like that but they think they are immortal so they keep on doing things like that. Even we think we are immortal that's why we want to keep our belongings with us always. We do not want to loose anything because our generation think we are immortal and things will never going to leave us.

So what is the biggest fear of our generation? This is something which we all are afraid all the time and this is fear of being alone or in other words Monophobia.  How? Why? You must be thinking but let me ask you something before explaining.

How many times you unlock your mobile and open WhatsApp or Facebook or Instagram or Gmail or any social websites?

Give me answer before reading further.

10

20

50

100

I bet sometimes more than 100. 

Why? 

Because we forget to live with our soul and we started living with a virtual world. We laugh when this virtual world allows us to laugh, We cry when this virtual world allows us to cry and our 99% emotions are controlled by this virtual world. We lost in this virtual world up to this level that we can’t live a single day without it. That is why this is biggest fear of this generation. If you ask somebody to be with themselves for 2 hours only, they get frustrated soon enough and they need somebody to make them happy or sad but they need somebody who can control their emotions. The nearest live thing which they have is their virtual world in their hands so they start opening and started feeling good. Now think on it and analyze how much this virtual world is helping you to get more happiness in your life or you are making yourself more obsessed to it?

Think…J

Think yaar…J

Due to this we lost connection of souls between two persons and we just bounded ourselves to this small world. Tiny small where we can’t live alone. We always need somebody with us. Some image of somebody or some status or some video or some quote on life. We always need something like this and due to this we forgot our soul. We forgot who we are and why we meant to be hear?

Am I right?

If this is applicable on you I am right and if this doesn’t applicable on you that’s great at least you are not caught by this virtual world. I saw some old people and I saw they are happy with the small little things in their life. But I lost my interest in small things. I always wanted something dramatic or something comedy because this virtual world made me so much ignorant for basic things that I forget to see beauty around me.

Tomorrow if somebody ask you to do a thing and that is to use your mobile or electronic gadget only when you receive some phone call and otherwise you need to pick it in your pocket. Will you do it easily? Will you try to connect with your soul? Will you try to do it? As one day we need to go alone from this world. That time no virtual world memory will help us to make happy. That time only things which we did in our life by pure heart will help us to get happy and how we realize these things to do them by heart?

Only when we connect to our soul. Only when we know who we are and why we are hear? This will only be possible when we keep on spend time with ourselves and keep on searching our soul and our happiness. So take out time and do some experiments with yourself. Be wiht yourself for at least 30 minutes everyday and in those 30 minutes just be with you only. It will help you to be more happy by doing nothing. As our habit has become like we always want to do something and than we live happy but happiness is not an object. It is the inherent  property of our soul. Always remember you came on this earth alone and you will go alone so be prepare for that because that day is coming to us although slowly slowly but that day is coming when we go alone and if we truly realize this. we will only do great work. 

Thank you so much for taking out time and reading this. In my next blog I will tell you how I conquer this fear of being alone and how I went on a unplanned solo trip to Dehradun, Amritsar and Vaishno devi.

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