DREAM

I do not know what that dream is, which you have in your mind. I don’t know how disappointing it might have been working towards that dream, but that dream which you are holding in your mind, that is POSSIBLE. That some of you already know that it is hard. It is not easy. It is hard to change your life. But in the process of working towards your dream you are going to encore, encore, encore a lot of disappointments, a lot of failure, a lot of pain. There comes moments when you doubt yourself like God Why, Why this is happening to me??? I am trying to take care my family, my friends. I am not trying to steal a lot from anybody. Why this is have to happen to me. 

       But those of you who have experienced some hard shits don’t give up on your dream. They come not to stay but to pass. It’s very important for you to believe that you are the one. Most people, they raise their family, they earn a living, and then they die. They stop growing, they stop working on themselves. They stop starching themselves. They stop pushing themselves. There are a lot of people who like to complain but they don’t want to change about their situation. Most people don’t work on their dream why..????

        One reason is fear, fear of failure. What if it’s not work out??? And fear of success. What if it’s doing?? Can I handle it??? They are not risk-takers.

       You spend so much time to think about people. You spend so much time to think about them. That those like you or not??? You study them, you research them, you wanna hangout like them and you wanna look like them. And you know what??? You have invested so much time to that you don’t know who you are??? I challenged you to spend time by yourself. It’s necessary that you get losers out of your life, if you want to live your dream. People who are running towards their dream life has a special kind of meaning. When you become the right person, what you do, you start separating yourself from other people. You began a sudden uniqueness within you. I am challenging you to be real. Because you real is best ever to define your values.

        That everybody won’t see it. Everybody won’t join you, that everybody won’t have the vision. It is necessary to know that you are the uncommon being. People who are living their dream they know that if it is going to happen. It is only up to them. You don’t have to go through life being a victim. Even though you face failure you know that I can do this. Even no one see it from me. I will see it for myself. This is what I believe and I am going to die for it. No matter how bad it is. No matter bad it gives, I am going to make it.

            "I want to represent an idea", "I want to represent possibilities". As some of you want to go on next level. You want to be an engineer, a doctor, a scientist, a painter, a singer, a musician, a manager, a worker. Listen to me you can reach the next level. When you start investing your mind you start reading books, you start doing something on it. I am challenging you how simple it is. I am dare you to Investing time. I am dare you to be alone. I am dare you to give hours to know yourself. Will you become who you are, will you become the person that is created to be. That is designed to be. When you become individual you will be the one to change the rules. You are not created to make people happy. Just need to do is investing your mind.

            You can make people proud on you. You can make your school proud on you. Your college proud on you. You can make your family proud on you. You can touch people’s life and world will notice you. The world will never be the same again because you came this way. Nobody can steal your dream. Every phase of rejection have a meaning that no one shows up. you lost again , again and again and lights occurs off but you still looking at your dream. Reviewing it again, again and again and saying yourself i tell i will.....

                            

             "you can live your DREAM"

   

Ab Main Kya Karoo...???

               Really missing you guys…:( 

Those days which I lived with you, were the most beautiful days of my life. We did everything from Masti to Study, from One night fight to Night out, from Parties to Disco, from Mess to Ramdev(remember???), from Dance to Dhamaal, from 1^st year to Final year, from 2^nd division to 80%, from Hostel to GT, from Facebook to WhatsApp, from Wi-Fi to 10mbps, from Theory to Practical, from Strangers to Friends, from Birthdays to Placements(sorry for this word I know and respect your feelings…:( ). Sometime I think for a engineer there should be no life after engineering and engineering must be at least 40 years duration course.

          Now engineering is completed and we all are enjoying at our home with delicious food and wonderful caring (I know what is reality but kahna padta hai…:P). Daily I talk with one or two of you and one thing which I realized is that till now we all are at confusing state, confused for our career and job.Here I want to tell you my story.

Now a days I wake up around 8 at morning and go to sleep at 11 or 12 at night. Between duration of these 15 hours I get almost thousand advises related to my life from my parents and my lovely, lovely neighbours. Three things which I really hate is neighbour, neighbour’s questions and neighbour’s advises. God why???? Why God…??? Itna atyachar kyon hum bachho par…???

Our mind is also finding the answer of these questions. Daily we think whole day long on only this topic. We think from every perspective with every angle in our own pocket. We want answer. We really have to find it because now it is the ultimate one.

          Your story is also like mine that I know very well. You are also stuck in between family expectations and your own dreams. What is the key? I don’t know. Yes! Simply I don’t know. But I bet you know it very well. I can’t tell you the key but I can just make you smile and think of it. Before proceeding further smile please since I am going to capture it.

          Just try to recall when you were child what you do when you had to choose between lollypop and candy. You just choose one and forget another with a simple thought that next time another one. It is also as simple as that. You know what you have to do but problem is that we have a number of options and we want security from every point of view. Isn't it true that we do not want to take risks? How can we be successful without going out of our comfort zone? Before taking a decision we think about family expectations, friends, relative’s view, neighbour’s view, people’s thinking on it, blah, blah, blah…$%&@#*!

See a lot of things took place in our daily life but when we were child there were not a single thing bother us. That time only thing which is live every moment with happiness and fun so key is as simple as that be a child and forget everything and just think only about what you really want to do in your life. Nothing else. Believe if you start following your dream without thinking about other aspects, everything will be on its place automatically. i know every aspect is important but it is not as important as your dream is.  Ask this question to yourself that why I am going Delhi or Jaipur or anywhere else for GATE, IES or whatever it is? Why I am going to do this or that? Ask question because it is not the time to copy your neighbour it is time to establish your own NAMEin the market… and believe it is possible… It is possibe...:)

Congratulation…:) We have MODIfied INDIA

          “You should wake up at 5 am and go to park for getting good health.” These were the lines which I were told by one of my consultant friend who gives free advises to others. At that phase of time I became used to getting up late in the morning and my life was not going towards happiness. After giving free advice he also added a tag line with it which made me irritated. "It will take almost 40 days to adapt a new habit." That is certainly truth. The good thing in this whole para is that I started waking up early and believe me once it took time but when it became a habit it feels like a tiny dust of cloud.

      Why I am telling you all these? Let me explain you something good.

Yesterday election's result were announced and we all are very much happy about it. I danced and enjoyed a lot after knowing that now we have MODIfied INDIA. A person who used to sell tea at railway stations is now going to drive the train of our country. Isn't it an inspiring story???

Yes!!! very inspiring story. It feels me proud for my country.

But do something going to change now??? Think for a while…:( 

  

      What are the issues which we want to change are inflation, corruption, unemployment, terrorism, declining economy, poverty and numbers of issues are there on which we discuss daily which need to be changed now. But don’t you think that we became too much used to of all this issues. Don’t you think that we became too much habitual about only talking on these issues? Try to remember the day when you woke up and decide "today I will going to change my country?" or the day when you woke up and decide "today i am going to change my habit of not being honest to myself?"

                       Are you able to find a single day of your life. 

                                              YES? or NO?

Well I know the answer. If we can't change own self. how can we think about our big country? Here the thing which required is change but for changing it first we need to change the habit of too much used to all these things and we need to make a new habit of being honest to world and own self. To be honest is very big thing is in itself and you know what?

     Change gives pain. Change takes time. Change needs consistency. So are you ready to be consistent? Are you ready to feel the pain? It will take few days or months or years because it is the law of nature but believe me when it will happen. it will look like a tiny dust of cloud. Take a decision to change because now we have to make our country on the top of the world and one day it will happen.

      And after all congrats because now we have MODIfied INDIA.    

H!!! Placement Ho Gya Kya :( :(

                      Attention Engineers. After reading it you are going to be Hired or may be Fired. Don't worry just kidding you. This post is especially for my engineer friends. Those who are in 1^st/2^nd/3^rd year should read it once but those who are in final year, they must read it twice because it is the ultimate perception which we have made but why i am writing on such a topic like Placements??? Actually these days I am getting only one question by my surroundings.

                      Placement Ho Gya Kya…????

and since starting of my final year i have been repeating only one answer "NO". As every time i say "NO" suddenly they become my free cost consultant & start giving me advice like You should go for GATE, CAT, IAS, ES, BANK, DEFENCE, MNCs, PSU etc, etc, etc. Hey man!!! I didn’t ask you a single thing. Bhai sahab Chahiye kya aapko???  

               Now and then I thought, “Is that the ultimate object of every engineer? it is the thing which I have been searching since my birth” and then I get the answer that is again “NO”. I will tell you why "NO"???

When I was in first year of my engineering I always came across these questions

                      1) Gf ban gyi kya??

                      2) Kya kiya College me??

                   3) Have you seen the new session of "how I met your mother"?/ "Big bang theory"? or "Sherlock Holmes"?

               After completing all these tasks. When i was in 2^nd  year i thought now i am free bird. I can do anything. But suddenly i was asked another bunches of questions by the same people.

                      1) Kitna % chal raha hai??

                      2) Kitne likes milte hai tuje fb par??

                      3) Tere pas android hai ya nahi??

             After getting aggregate 77% in engineering and a lot of likes on Facebook and having a android phone now I am in final year and I came across these questions

                     1) Placements ho gya kya?? 

                     2)  What is your score or GATE??

                     3) What is your %??

                     4) What is the planning now??

                  Chahte kya ho bhai mujse….?????????

                  And you know what the problem was??? I was reacting answers of those questions for them because I was confused and just stuck with these questions. I believed that these are the ultimate things of everybody's life. If you are successful to give answer of those all question you are the man!!! Bang on!!! Cheers for you answers. You have given all answers by implementing them in life. I can bet with you that at some point of your life you are also doing the same. Just responding the answer of those questions. The questions which are not permanent, the questions which make you sick sometimes. 

But then again do you think that these questions are having an end??

                      Nooooooooo….never

Because every time you have people around you and they will ask you questions definitely. They will give you advices. We have a bunch of consultant and advisers here. It is only your choice. Either you can give them the answers or you can listen your inner voice and make your own life according to you. Each and every time when we get questions we become stuck with it because we want to prove ourselves in front of our own people. This process does not having an end. Everyone has a different purpose and life style. So Just do not follow others and do not copy. Be with you and do not get frustrated by question. Just do what you really want to do because 

                                   सीढिया तो उनके लिए बनी है जिन्हे छत पर जाना है ।

                                   सीढिया तो उनके लिए बनी है जिन्हे छत पर जाना है ।

                                   आसमान पर हो जिनकी नजर
                                   उन्हें खुद अपना रास्ता बनाना है । 

                                  
 Only one life... Aazaadiyaan..:) :)
          

Is this Happiness or only Excitement (part.1)...

          Hi friends I am back with some new experiences and new thoughts and new ideas. I am sure you have read my last blog story of everyone and you have started doing something meaningful for your life. It seems that you are happy that is good but have you ever thought that…

The things for which you are happy or which you do in your life, are your real purpose & your real happiness or you are doing just for the sake of excitement.

           Think for a while…

                                    

Yes I am talking about your daily life. You do a lot of things to make yourself happy but have you ever thought that, it is the thing for which God send you here on this beautiful planet mother earth.

Now let me make this simple for you some days ago I went a beautiful place called Mehrangarh fort at Jodhpur, which is one of the biggest fort in India, made by the great royal leader Rao Jodha Ji. I saw a lot of things & a lot of people there. I enjoyed a lot but after visiting the stunning fort I realized one thing which made me force to write this for you and for me also.

          “I realized one thing that the people came there for visiting the fort, they actually did not come to see the beauty of it, they came here for photographs or videos which they were going to upload on their Facebook wall for showing others that, “look how beautiful or handsome I am???”. Actually I was also doing the same and when I understood I found that not only me everyone was doing the same and are doing the same”.

          We are not watching the beauty of present which we really have in our own hands but we are just happy in our thoughts for only thinking about future moments for which we are not assured 100%. We just want to be like that because we believe that my thoughts are my God but that is not the truth of this life.  

Ø Whenever we go some restaurant for a party we just eat food and click pics. Either our focus is on to eat more, more and more or to click pics with our senseless smile. Every time we do the same stuff eat then click or click then eat.

Ø Whenever we see some video on YouTube or somewhere else all of a sudden we become very excited about it and we start predicting about it or start emotionally related to it. But the next time when we see the same video we feel different

Ø We chat with our like one for hours and we think this is real happiness but sometime that real one is also become irritated or boring for us because our thoughts are not in the present.

          Could you please give me the answer of this question “do you really think that the things which are giving you the feeling of happiness today, will not give you pain or sorrow tomorrow???” Actually whatever I am telling you, you know it very well but what is the point I am trying to making here. why i am doing all this stuff because our priorities are changed, our moral values are changed, our life become dependent upon few temporary things. We became stuck in our thoughts and belief system. We have been living a life daily since last 4 or 5 or 6 or 10 years. But do you really believe that by living the same life and by thinking the same way and by doing the same stuff for upcoming days, months, years you will going to make a difference in your life.

          No….????

          Then what is the solution???

Be happy for which you have today not for which you might have after some days/months/years. Be happy in your own and try to make your life of your own not of others. Do not become excited for everything. It decrease your value also. I think we all have it. The only thing required is to move out from mind and thoughts & to feel presence of Now… that is the only power…:) :)

   thank you for reading it. If you feel that it might be help full for your friend kindly share it by clicking here (given below).                                                         To Be Continued...

story of everyone

Hello my dear friends,

First of all thank you so much for coming here and give your valuable time to read my thoughts. It is my first blog and it is a simple story which I going to write down here in simple words.

Let us start talk with some energy. I am here to make you happy, enthusiastic, prosperous, motivated and fearless. So a very happy life to you. Please read it carefully because this story is certainly connected to us life including me.

                        Story starts with a day. A day when you were born. Everyone was happy at that time. You were crying but others were enjoying. You were a child whom everyone like because of you made a lot of funny things and than you started growing up. You did what you want to do in your life. You had a belief system in yourself. You laughed by you own. You have the power you have courage to take every risk. You didn’t listen to others. You had a belief that if you rotate like Saktimaan you would fly. You road your bicycle like anything.  

          But when you were in class 8^th you were told by someone that you had to make more than 80 % marks in your board exams. When you wanted to do something but you were stopped by your near ones. You got 90% in class 8^th but you were told that you could made 95% it is not enough for us for being in this society. You had done 100% efforts to secure 90% but you were told that you are not moral enough. One of your friend secured 93% and you were told that you should work hard like him. Now you had started to compare yourself with your friends, your best buddies. For only a lack of marks you had started these all. You started a race, a race which didn’t have any end line. In every field like health, sports, look, money you were told that you are not good enough. You loved your friends by your heart but inside your mind there was jealousy and comparison because you were always told that you have to beat your friends in every field. When you asked your parents for a cricket bat you were told that it is not good for your future, you had to study hard.

                        “Not even a single time you were asked that what you want in your life, what are your burning desires”

                        Your qualities were blocked than you started focus on your weakness. Now you were told to choose mathematics because in class 10^th you secured 90% marks in mathematics. You didn’t know what is engineering. You had started to settle down yourself in situations and you started compromises. Somehow you got selected in a good Engineering College. Now you found new friends. You learnt so many things of life. You got a girlfriend but after sometime you thought that it is not a good time for that so you broke up with her.

                     You had started to find happiness in temporary things like Facebook, whatsapp and some comedy videos all that type of things. When you were in final year you had an idea to become businessperson or dancer or singer or IAS or RAS or professor or teacher or a job or MBA or GATE or just do a simple job but every time you were told that

              “Don’t think about it, it is very hard”

                You had started to believe on them. You were complaining, abusing, compromising and fighting. You were not doing what you really want to do. You left the idea and you get placed you were enjoying but in your heart there is a place which was saying to you that you were not born for doing this work.

                         You lived your life for others and finally at your last moment you were thinking that you have made a very big mistake, you have made a very big mistake.

                         My dear friends the things which I want to tell you by this story is that it is the story of every that type of person who don’t try to understand their ultimate purpose of life. Try to find out your purpose of life, your life has given to you because of some special purpose and you are like the soul of God.

                 “Ask yourself what do you really want, who to you want to be?”

Don’t live for others,,, live for yourself you are the best as the way you are and I love you all as the way you are.

                      Thank you for reading this and here I used “you”,”your” for just sake of simplicity so don’t get attached any word very much…

                 Thank you... J