Thursday, July 24, 2014

DREAM

I do not know what that dream is, which you have in your mind. I don’t know how disappointing it might have been working towards that dream, but that dream which you are holding in your mind, that is POSSIBLE. That some of you already know that it is hard. It is not easy. It is hard to change your life. But in the process of working towards your dream you are going to encore, encore, encore a lot of disappointments, a lot of failure, a lot of pain. There comes moments when you doubt yourself like God Why, Why this is happening to me??? I am trying to take care my family, my friends. I am not trying to steal a lot from anybody. Why this is have to happen to me. 
       But those of you who have experienced some hard shits don’t give up on your dream. They come not to stay but to pass. It’s very important for you to believe that you are the one. Most people, they raise their family, they earn a living, and then they die. They stop growing, they stop working on themselves. They stop starching themselves. They stop pushing themselves. There are a lot of people who like to complain but they don’t want to change about their situation. Most people don’t work on their dream why..????
        One reason is fear, fear of failure. What if it’s not work out??? And fear of success. What if it’s doing?? Can I handle it??? They are not risk-takers.
       You spend so much time to think about people. You spend so much time to think about them. That those like you or not??? You study them, you research them, you wanna hangout like them and you wanna look like them. And you know what??? You have invested so much time to that you don’t know who you are??? I challenged you to spend time by yourself. It’s necessary that you get losers out of your life, if you want to live your dream. People who are running towards their dream life has a special kind of meaning. When you become the right person, what you do, you start separating yourself from other people. You began a sudden uniqueness within you. I am challenging you to be real. Because you real is best ever to define your values.
        That everybody won’t see it. Everybody won’t join you, that everybody won’t have the vision. It is necessary to know that you are the uncommon being. People who are living their dream they know that if it is going to happen. It is only up to them. You don’t have to go through life being a victim. Even though you face failure you know that I can do this. Even no one see it from me. I will see it for myself. This is what I believe and I am going to die for it. No matter how bad it is. No matter bad it gives, I am going to make it.
            "I want to represent an idea", "I want to represent possibilities". As some of you want to go on next level. You want to be an engineer, a doctor, a scientist, a painter, a singer, a musician, a manager, a worker. Listen to me you can reach the next level. When you start investing your mind you start reading books, you start doing something on it. I am challenging you how simple it is. I am dare you to Investing time. I am dare you to be alone. I am dare you to give hours to know yourself. Will you become who you are, will you become the person that is created to be. That is designed to be. When you become individual you will be the one to change the rules. You are not created to make people happy. Just need to do is investing your mind.
            You can make people proud on you. You can make your school proud on you. Your college proud on you. You can make your family proud on you. You can touch people’s life and world will notice you. The world will never be the same again because you came this way. Nobody can steal your dream. Every phase of rejection have a meaning that no one shows up. you lost again , again and again and lights occurs off but you still looking at your dream. Reviewing it again, again and again and saying yourself i tell i will.....
                            
             "you can live your DREAM"

   

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Ab Main Kya Karoo...???

               Really missing you guys…:( 
Those days which I lived with you, were the most beautiful days of my life. We did everything from Masti to Study, from One night fight to Night out, from Parties to Disco, from Mess to Ramdev(remember???), from Dance to Dhamaal, from 1st year to Final year, from 2nd division to 80%, from Hostel to GT, from Facebook to WhatsApp, from Wi-Fi to 10mbps, from Theory to Practical, from Strangers to Friends, from Birthdays to Placements(sorry for this word I know and respect your feelings…:( ). Sometime I think for a engineer there should be no life after engineering and engineering must be at least 40 years duration course.
          Now engineering is completed and we all are enjoying at our home with delicious food and wonderful caring (I know what is reality but kahna padta hai…:P). Daily I talk with one or two of you and one thing which I realized is that till now we all are at confusing state, confused for our career and job.Here I want to tell you my story.
Now a days I wake up around 8 at morning and go to sleep at 11 or 12 at night. Between duration of these 15 hours I get almost thousand advises related to my life from my parents and my lovely, lovely neighbours. Three things which I really hate is neighbour, neighbour’s questions and neighbour’s advises. God why???? Why God…??? Itna atyachar kyon hum bachho par…???
Our mind is also finding the answer of these questions. Daily we think whole day long on only this topic. We think from every perspective with every angle in our own pocket. We want answer. We really have to find it because now it is the ultimate one.
          Your story is also like mine that I know very well. You are also stuck in between family expectations and your own dreams. What is the key? I don’t know. Yes! Simply I don’t know. But I bet you know it very well. I can’t tell you the key but I can just make you smile and think of it. Before proceeding further smile please since I am going to capture it.
          Just try to recall when you were child what you do when you had to choose between lollypop and candy. You just choose one and forget another with a simple thought that next time another one. It is also as simple as that. You know what you have to do but problem is that we have a number of options and we want security from every point of view. Isn't it true that we do not want to take risks? How can we be successful without going out of our comfort zone? Before taking a decision we think about family expectations, friends, relative’s view, neighbour’s view, people’s thinking on it, blah, blah, blah…$%&@#*!
See a lot of things took place in our daily life but when we were child there were not a single thing bother us. That time only thing which is live every moment with happiness and fun so key is as simple as that be a child and forget everything and just think only about what you really want to do in your life. Nothing else. Believe if you start following your dream without thinking about other aspects, everything will be on its place automatically. i know every aspect is important but it is not as important as your dream is.  Ask this question to yourself that why I am going Delhi or Jaipur or anywhere else for GATE, IES or whatever it is? Why I am going to do this or that? Ask question because it is not the time to copy your neighbour it is time to establish your own NAMEin the market… and believe it is possibleIt is possibe...:)



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