H!!! Placement Ho Gya Kya :( :(

                      Attention Engineers. After reading it you are going to be Hired or may be Fired. Don't worry just kidding you. This post is especially for my engineer friends. Those who are in 1^st/2^nd/3^rd year should read it once but those who are in final year, they must read it twice because it is the ultimate perception which we have made but why i am writing on such a topic like Placements??? Actually these days I am getting only one question by my surroundings.

                      Placement Ho Gya Kya…????

and since starting of my final year i have been repeating only one answer "NO". As every time i say "NO" suddenly they become my free cost consultant & start giving me advice like You should go for GATE, CAT, IAS, ES, BANK, DEFENCE, MNCs, PSU etc, etc, etc. Hey man!!! I didn’t ask you a single thing. Bhai sahab Chahiye kya aapko???  

               Now and then I thought, “Is that the ultimate object of every engineer? it is the thing which I have been searching since my birth” and then I get the answer that is again “NO”. I will tell you why "NO"???

When I was in first year of my engineering I always came across these questions

                      1) Gf ban gyi kya??

                      2) Kya kiya College me??

                   3) Have you seen the new session of "how I met your mother"?/ "Big bang theory"? or "Sherlock Holmes"?

               After completing all these tasks. When i was in 2^nd  year i thought now i am free bird. I can do anything. But suddenly i was asked another bunches of questions by the same people.

                      1) Kitna % chal raha hai??

                      2) Kitne likes milte hai tuje fb par??

                      3) Tere pas android hai ya nahi??

             After getting aggregate 77% in engineering and a lot of likes on Facebook and having a android phone now I am in final year and I came across these questions

                     1) Placements ho gya kya?? 

                     2)  What is your score or GATE??

                     3) What is your %??

                     4) What is the planning now??

                  Chahte kya ho bhai mujse….?????????

                  And you know what the problem was??? I was reacting answers of those questions for them because I was confused and just stuck with these questions. I believed that these are the ultimate things of everybody's life. If you are successful to give answer of those all question you are the man!!! Bang on!!! Cheers for you answers. You have given all answers by implementing them in life. I can bet with you that at some point of your life you are also doing the same. Just responding the answer of those questions. The questions which are not permanent, the questions which make you sick sometimes. 

But then again do you think that these questions are having an end??

                      Nooooooooo….never

Because every time you have people around you and they will ask you questions definitely. They will give you advices. We have a bunch of consultant and advisers here. It is only your choice. Either you can give them the answers or you can listen your inner voice and make your own life according to you. Each and every time when we get questions we become stuck with it because we want to prove ourselves in front of our own people. This process does not having an end. Everyone has a different purpose and life style. So Just do not follow others and do not copy. Be with you and do not get frustrated by question. Just do what you really want to do because 

                                   सीढिया तो उनके लिए बनी है जिन्हे छत पर जाना है ।

                                   सीढिया तो उनके लिए बनी है जिन्हे छत पर जाना है ।

                                   आसमान पर हो जिनकी नजर
                                   उन्हें खुद अपना रास्ता बनाना है । 

                                  
 Only one life... Aazaadiyaan..:) :)
          

Is this Happiness or only Excitement (part.1)...

          Hi friends I am back with some new experiences and new thoughts and new ideas. I am sure you have read my last blog story of everyone and you have started doing something meaningful for your life. It seems that you are happy that is good but have you ever thought that…

The things for which you are happy or which you do in your life, are your real purpose & your real happiness or you are doing just for the sake of excitement.

           Think for a while…

                                    

Yes I am talking about your daily life. You do a lot of things to make yourself happy but have you ever thought that, it is the thing for which God send you here on this beautiful planet mother earth.

Now let me make this simple for you some days ago I went a beautiful place called Mehrangarh fort at Jodhpur, which is one of the biggest fort in India, made by the great royal leader Rao Jodha Ji. I saw a lot of things & a lot of people there. I enjoyed a lot but after visiting the stunning fort I realized one thing which made me force to write this for you and for me also.

          “I realized one thing that the people came there for visiting the fort, they actually did not come to see the beauty of it, they came here for photographs or videos which they were going to upload on their Facebook wall for showing others that, “look how beautiful or handsome I am???”. Actually I was also doing the same and when I understood I found that not only me everyone was doing the same and are doing the same”.

          We are not watching the beauty of present which we really have in our own hands but we are just happy in our thoughts for only thinking about future moments for which we are not assured 100%. We just want to be like that because we believe that my thoughts are my God but that is not the truth of this life.  

Ø Whenever we go some restaurant for a party we just eat food and click pics. Either our focus is on to eat more, more and more or to click pics with our senseless smile. Every time we do the same stuff eat then click or click then eat.

Ø Whenever we see some video on YouTube or somewhere else all of a sudden we become very excited about it and we start predicting about it or start emotionally related to it. But the next time when we see the same video we feel different

Ø We chat with our like one for hours and we think this is real happiness but sometime that real one is also become irritated or boring for us because our thoughts are not in the present.

          Could you please give me the answer of this question “do you really think that the things which are giving you the feeling of happiness today, will not give you pain or sorrow tomorrow???” Actually whatever I am telling you, you know it very well but what is the point I am trying to making here. why i am doing all this stuff because our priorities are changed, our moral values are changed, our life become dependent upon few temporary things. We became stuck in our thoughts and belief system. We have been living a life daily since last 4 or 5 or 6 or 10 years. But do you really believe that by living the same life and by thinking the same way and by doing the same stuff for upcoming days, months, years you will going to make a difference in your life.

          No….????

          Then what is the solution???

Be happy for which you have today not for which you might have after some days/months/years. Be happy in your own and try to make your life of your own not of others. Do not become excited for everything. It decrease your value also. I think we all have it. The only thing required is to move out from mind and thoughts & to feel presence of Now… that is the only power…:) :)

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